Saturday's Exploits
I woke up really late on Saturday. Jerry and I had planned to go to the big city. So we started off and reached a friend’s place by early evening. On the way we listened (very loudly) to the soundtrack of the musical “Les Miserables”. We were stuck in congestion for more than an hour and one person even rolled down her window and asked if it was Les Miserables. We, very triumphantly, replied that it indeed was. We watched some baseball match which Jerry was all excited about. I had no interest in watching whatsoever, but Jerry wanted to. So I sat quietly until it was over. After that we went clubbing.
So the big city has a gay district and they have it done really well. Very nice and classy, so I do like the place quite a bit. We went over to one of the clubs. Nice music. It was mostly stuff I knew so I danced a lot. After about 3 hours of dancing I was kind of tired and so around 3 or so I sat down near the bar. Some guy tried to pick me up. This guy was so nervous that I found it mildly amusing. I thought it was sweet. So this guy Ted told me that he was traveling and was not from this city, and he said that he was put up at a hotel room. Till that point I was having fun getting to know him and wouldn’t have objected to some fun makeout session. But at that point I realized that he just wanted to sleep with someone. Alas, I was really getting to like him. Anyway, as always, when I know that a person is looking to hook up for the night, I normally dont engage them furthur since I feel that otherwise I would be wasting their time as I have already decided not to sleep with anyone for now. So while he tried unsuccessfully to pick me up, I just left abruptly hoping that he would find someone else, but it was already about 4am. The place was open till 5am. Hope he had a nice time! Hope you picked up a nice guy Ted!
We met a couple guys that we normally see at home, in the big city club. It was just interesting that we would meet so many people in the big city that we know from the small city. It is a small world. Its an even smaller gay world. The club was otherwise fun. They had guys who had next to nothing on in two cages which wasn’t very interesting really. But then the guys got into the same cage and that was something (my eyes are really huge when I tell you this.) . Everybody stopped dancing and was just staring blatantly at the cage.
We came back to the friends place and slept till 10 in the morning and then drove back here. I slept the rest of the day on Sunday too.
You guys have been making some comments about Jerry and me. I want to remind you that Jerry is not my boyfriend. He knows that I am not interested in a romantic relationship with him. But we get along well and so I like hanging out with him. And as far as TheFire goes, its one of those relationships that you know is going to be stormy albeit passionate, but at this point in my life I am a bit tired. I’d rather go for a calm relationship where there is not so much drama. Just sweetness. Something soothing for the nerves. (Read about BlueWater in last paragraph of this link) If being single is what it takes rather than be in a wrong relationship then, so be it. But every now and then, I get perky and go out and have some fun. I don’t really intend to hurt anybody.
I don’t really know what it is with me and Latin men. I just fall for them so easily. It’s like they know exactly how to flirt. When I dance with TheFire, we just are always in Sync. Our eyes lock. Our bodies sway together and for a brief preiod i dont notice anybody else dancing around us.
TheFire is like a short version of Ricky Martin. Well, let me rephrase that. Ricky Martin is a taller version of ThFire. TheFire is .....So lithe. So petite. So sexy. There I go dreaming again! Thats why I refer to him as The Fire. Eternally enchating and yet burns you if you go too close. We are both stuck in a cosmic dance which will never end. I play, and then he plays. Neither of us getting it exactly right. But it leaves us both wanting just a little bit more. (~Music playing in my ears. Diamond Rio - One more day, One more time, One more sunset, maybe I'd be satisfied. But then again, I know what it would do, Leave me wishing still, for one more day with you)
Life is a dance. Relationships are dances. You step right sometimes and you step wrong sometimes. The key is to keep smiling, get back to the dance and continue on. Graciously, with your dignity intact, head held high.
Quote of the Day: It is said that a large part of seduction is anticipation.
4 days to Hawaii. The exhilaration begins. Maybe its just the woozy feeling from me holding my breath. I am beggining to read and reread the same brochures over and over again.
So the big city has a gay district and they have it done really well. Very nice and classy, so I do like the place quite a bit. We went over to one of the clubs. Nice music. It was mostly stuff I knew so I danced a lot. After about 3 hours of dancing I was kind of tired and so around 3 or so I sat down near the bar. Some guy tried to pick me up. This guy was so nervous that I found it mildly amusing. I thought it was sweet. So this guy Ted told me that he was traveling and was not from this city, and he said that he was put up at a hotel room. Till that point I was having fun getting to know him and wouldn’t have objected to some fun makeout session. But at that point I realized that he just wanted to sleep with someone. Alas, I was really getting to like him. Anyway, as always, when I know that a person is looking to hook up for the night, I normally dont engage them furthur since I feel that otherwise I would be wasting their time as I have already decided not to sleep with anyone for now. So while he tried unsuccessfully to pick me up, I just left abruptly hoping that he would find someone else, but it was already about 4am. The place was open till 5am. Hope he had a nice time! Hope you picked up a nice guy Ted!
We met a couple guys that we normally see at home, in the big city club. It was just interesting that we would meet so many people in the big city that we know from the small city. It is a small world. Its an even smaller gay world. The club was otherwise fun. They had guys who had next to nothing on in two cages which wasn’t very interesting really. But then the guys got into the same cage and that was something (my eyes are really huge when I tell you this.) . Everybody stopped dancing and was just staring blatantly at the cage.
We came back to the friends place and slept till 10 in the morning and then drove back here. I slept the rest of the day on Sunday too.
You guys have been making some comments about Jerry and me. I want to remind you that Jerry is not my boyfriend. He knows that I am not interested in a romantic relationship with him. But we get along well and so I like hanging out with him. And as far as TheFire goes, its one of those relationships that you know is going to be stormy albeit passionate, but at this point in my life I am a bit tired. I’d rather go for a calm relationship where there is not so much drama. Just sweetness. Something soothing for the nerves. (Read about BlueWater in last paragraph of this link) If being single is what it takes rather than be in a wrong relationship then, so be it. But every now and then, I get perky and go out and have some fun. I don’t really intend to hurt anybody.
I don’t really know what it is with me and Latin men. I just fall for them so easily. It’s like they know exactly how to flirt. When I dance with TheFire, we just are always in Sync. Our eyes lock. Our bodies sway together and for a brief preiod i dont notice anybody else dancing around us.
TheFire is like a short version of Ricky Martin. Well, let me rephrase that. Ricky Martin is a taller version of ThFire. TheFire is .....So lithe. So petite. So sexy. There I go dreaming again! Thats why I refer to him as The Fire. Eternally enchating and yet burns you if you go too close. We are both stuck in a cosmic dance which will never end. I play, and then he plays. Neither of us getting it exactly right. But it leaves us both wanting just a little bit more. (~Music playing in my ears. Diamond Rio - One more day, One more time, One more sunset, maybe I'd be satisfied. But then again, I know what it would do, Leave me wishing still, for one more day with you)
Life is a dance. Relationships are dances. You step right sometimes and you step wrong sometimes. The key is to keep smiling, get back to the dance and continue on. Graciously, with your dignity intact, head held high.
Quote of the Day: It is said that a large part of seduction is anticipation.
4 days to Hawaii. The exhilaration begins. Maybe its just the woozy feeling from me holding my breath. I am beggining to read and reread the same brochures over and over again.
posted by Dunce Happy at 2:21 PM
2 Comments:
Wah!
I miss gay clubs!
What passes for one in Bombay is WAY too sad.
I miss Avalon in Boston!! (I'd say The Cock in NYC, but then you'd judge me!)
The Avalon Chain is good. The club in Queer as Folk was called Avalon too, me thinks.
Shee....Vicky just said the C word. Shame shame. I am so judging you, right now.
I dont think we (as people, gay or non gay) can afford to care about being judged. it may hurt, but unless the judgemental ones know that they hurt you, they dont win. oh, its all psych games we play. the world suddenly seems so dark.
ok, so who else is hooked on "desparate housewives"? i wanna know. email me.
Duncy!
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